seems letting my head take control for a while is definitely the best option. my heart can't be trusted, as I've learned int he past. my heart makes reckless decisions and jumps into things without thinking... then I end up more of a mess than I started.
I've decided when I do find a boyfriend these are some qualities I would like that most previous boyfriends have lacked:
1. confidence. this is a big one, I'm tired of my guy saying something and then looking to me like "is that okay?" you have a brain with opinions and wants... use it. and don't give them up just because I exist.
2. independent. this sort of goes with the other one. I want someone who has passions of their own... it would be great if we share some, but it would also be nice to know if I do something with my friends he's not sitting at home staring at a wall or texting me to make me hurry home.
3. humility. this one is kind of huge... you are NOT the coolest thing since sliced bread (mainly because me and my sister are). there is a BIG difference between beign confident and being arrogant, cocky, ect... there are too reasons guys act like this
- they really think they are the s***... this drives me nuts in a way I can't explain. I guess because they are usually wrong :)
- they have ZERO confidence and they think faking it by acting like they think they're the coolest, smartest, and/or most attractive guy ever. this bothers me for the above reason and because it does not make up for having no confidence.
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